Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year

Continuing instant in prayer –
Be persevering in prayer. The meaning of this direction is, that in order to discharge aright the duties of the Christian life, and especially to maintain a joyful hope, and to be sustained in the midst of afflictions, it is necessary to cherish a spirit of prayer, and to live near to God. A comment on the blog quoting Romans 12:12 confirmed a desire that is on my heart for 2011 and that is to develop my prayer life. As such my blog will have a focus on praying in the coming year. I have lots to pray about and I would ask you to join me in this adventure.

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas

Today I spent Christmas with Laverne and Maria and we had family and a friend for Christmas dinner. As I was thinking of Christmas I remembered the pageants I was a part of in Sunday School when we celebrated the best Christmas Gift “For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:11 For me this Christmas is a season of thanksgiving. I thank God for the continued improvement of my health, family and friends that take care of my needs, for a clear mind, and most of all for the gift of God’s Son

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Christmas from a Wheelchair

Today I am feeling a little discouraged as I have had a bad time with spasms. When I feel like this I remember a story from the life of David when he was discouraged he found his strength in the Lord-! Samuel 30:6 so this evening I have been asking God to encourage me using Isaiah 41:10 as a promise from God (fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand) I would also enlist your prayers for this Christmastime and thank you for your support for the past couple of years.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Opportunity at Christmas

Today we had the opportunity to look after the kettles for Salvation Army at Safeway. Some people were very generous and I met several people that I knew. It was a working out of Gal 6:10 So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone. We will also be at Safeway with the kettles again on Tuesday Dec 7 between 2&4 so come and visit us and bring a donation for the kettle.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Come and see us at Safeway

Today is the first Sunday of Advent and it reminds me that the Christmas season is a great time to share the hope we have in Jesus Christ. I Peter 3:151Pe 3:15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, John and I will be at the Salvation Army kettle in PR at Safeway on Friday Dec 3 and Tuesday Dec 7 between 2-4. Pray for us that we would be ready to share the reason for the hope that is in Christ. We appreciate all your support in reading the blog and praying for us. If you are in town do drop by and say hi.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

A great trip and a new command

The first part of this week has been taken up with a trip to Vancouver in the snow. The original plan was for me to stay in ECU in Powell River but they were unable to accommodate me at this time. Instead I went with Laverne and Maria and stayed at Marsha’s (Laverne’s sister). The main purpose was to renew Maria’s passport which she was able to do. It was renewed for 5 years Praise God! I was much more energetic and able to enjoy the things we did. Highlights were shopping at Regent College bookstore, seeing the latest Harry Potter movie and attending Family Night at Cascades Chapel. While the kids played games in the gym the adults studied about love. The key verses were John 13:34,35 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." The point I got out of it was love is the mark of the disciple of Christ. I look forward putting it into practice during this Christmas season. Please pray John 13:34,35 for our family this Christmas

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Open my eyes

A few days ago in our morning Bible reading we read the story of the woman at the well from John 4. It struck me then as it always does that the woman was not looking for Jesus but Jesus came to her and touched her life where it was most needed. At times since my accident I have been in need like the woman and Jesus has come to me when I was least looking for him. I seem to be physically getting better every day but spiritually I value prayers on my behalf.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Three Stars

Third Star-Saturday morning Men’s prayer meeting. It is a great start to a weekend. On Friday night I usually worry about getting up in time but when Saturday comes it is great to be down at the church at 8am praying for each other and our church family.
Second Star-the telephone. Tonight we had a phone call from Lee Guay in California. He told me all about swimming and how hot the weather was.
First Star-fellowship with God through prayer and daily Bible reading. I also appreciate sharing this star with you as we pray for each other and see God at work in our lives.
Update-I feel 100% better. Your prayers have been answered but I still need them. Thanks for your continuing prayer

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Tired

It has been over a week since we last blogged. This is partly because John has been very tired. He has managed to make it to church and to make appointments but not much else. He also lost his appetite and some weight as well. We are thankful that his good appetite has returned. Please pray for John that during this time when he is feeling so tired that his confidence “that he who began a good work in (him) will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ “ Phil 1:6

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Vinyl Cafe

The past few days have been very encouraging for me. The highlight was probably attending a Vinyl CafĂ© concert with Stuart McLean. For those not in the know he has a show on CBC radio where he tells uplifting, humorous stories. The icing on the cake was we met personally with Stuart after the concert. This was arranged by one of the nurses we consulted with this past week. God works things out in his timing even to seeing the nurse this particular week. This brings to mind a favourite verse of the boys at the school I taught at in Kenya so many years ago – Jer. 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Thanks for all your prayers

I felt good enough today to review the last few blogs and responses. I have been greatly encouraged by the mention of the prayers you have for Laverne and I. My mind is clearer and my spiritual sense is reawakening. Let us praise the Lord together! Hallelujah! Psalm 150.
John.(typed by caregiver Amanda)

Monday, October 25, 2010

John is out and about again

As I write this John is tucked in bed sleeping. He continues to improve each day and do more. Today we went to my parents for lunch and then after that John wanted to go to the library. Tonight we went to Bible Study –the first for over a month. It was amazing that John was feeling well enough to go out in the evening but we enjoyed spending time and sharing in God’s Word. To not do that for awhile really makes me realize how special that time is. Praise God with us for John’s continued improvement.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

We need each other

Today John woke up like his old self. Although we didn’t make it to church we got out the Bible and read and prayed and shared our thoughts as well as sang some old hymns. In the afternoon John got up (first time for more than 5 minutes in days). We took a drive and watched the waves crash in on the beach as well as went and watched the salmon spawning. On the way back to the car the wheelchair got grounded on a two foot wide patch of stones. Fortunately someone noticed out plight and came to our aid. He pushed the chair while I drove it and got out of there. It reminded me of the message he delivered to the university students a couple of months ago. His message was “we need each other. we aren’t going to make it on our own”.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Good News

Today was a better day for John. We had a number of people from Kelly Creek Community Church come this morning and pray for John. It was very encouraging for both of us to see such love and concern for us demonstrated. He is starting to eat a bit and says he feels improved. Please continue to pray that this improvement will continue. We feel blessed to be part of such a loving community here in Kelly Creek and also with those of you on the blog.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Prayers requested

John has been struggling lately. At the present time we would appreciate your prayers for him as well as me. His level of consciousness has decreased in the past few days. This is somewhat similar to what happened to him in Vancouver last November. It is not apparent what the problem is. At that time he had all kinds of specialists and tests done but nothing definitive turned up. Please pray that if there is something can be done that we will figure out what it is.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Vancouver Visit

We have been staying at GF Strong on this trip to Vancouver. It has been great to see lots of friends from the staff there as well as a few of the patients who were back for a visit and we got to catch up on what is happening. We were able to attend the rehab rap on Wednesday which is a meeting with the BC Paraplegic Assn. These are always informative meetings with everyone sharing ideas about what is on different people’s minds. The focus ended up being mostly on staffing and it was quite helpful for us. We also found out that the room we are staying in was not booked for Friday so we decided to stay an extra day. This way we avoid the ferry traffic on Friday night, as well we can have a longer visit with John’s brother Robin who came down to visit as well as buy a few things.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Successful Surgery

Today John had a Port-A-Cath inserted under the skin on the right side of his chest. This needed to be done under anesthetic. We were blessed to have John’s former family doctor do the anesthetic. Everything went very smoothly. John had been fasting since the previous night and got out of the OR at 3:10pm. You won’t be surprised to know that his first words were “when can I have something to eat”! We were home by just after 5 and he has been resting in bed ever since. How appropriate that this is the week of Thanksgiving. We are truly thankful, thankful for everything going so smoothly, thankful for the anesthetist being a friend, and thankful for all of you praying for us.

Monday, October 11, 2010

Surgery Tomorrow

Tomorrow John will have surgery to put in a port o cath - a type of IV line that is under the skin that is less susceptible to infection. Please pray that this will go without incident and John’s recovery will be short. He continues to be very tired. He has not had the energy to write or even think about doing his blog. We do appreciate all your prays and encouraging words

Friday, October 8, 2010

The Infection Continues

John is continuing to struggle with this infection. It leaves him very weak and dozing much of the time. This past week we spent a couple of days in Emergency while they tried to figure out what was going on. They aren’t sure but have taken out in PICC (IV) line and hope that he improves. At least he is no worse! Tuesday he is to go to the hospital for a surgical procedure to put in a different sort of IV access line. Please pray that everything will go well as we are to leave the next day for Vancouver for another doctor’s appointment on Friday. I hope this is the last trip to Vancouver for at least a month! We will have made three trips in a month by next week.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Recurring Infection

For over a month John has been struggling with a recurring infection which he doesn’t seem to be able to shake. He has made numerous trips to his doctor and to emergency. This week is a busy week as he is to see the urologist in Courtenay on Monday and then we go to Vancouver on Wednesday for a one year follow up with his surgeon on Friday. Please pray that the doctors will have wisdom in being able to determine the source of this infection. It is very draining on John and leaves his very tired. Pray also for safety for us on the trips we make to the island and lower mainland.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

My chair has a mind of its own

On the first ferry [to Langdale] the elevator was small and the chair pinned Laverne to the wall and then lost power. Fortunately there were friends who helped us push the chair into the van and the next day the serviceman was at the house before 8:30. This reminded me that we all need each other which was the theme of my talk at the campus kick-off Friday. I asked the students to look around and realize they could all help each other. Please pray that when I want to go my own way there will be someone there to help me.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Finishing Touches

Yesterday I received my new chair – colour – orange brule – Yah! There were some special things they did for my chair to accommodate my ventilator. It reminded me of a button that was popular about 30 years ago that said PBPGINFWMY – (please be patient, God is not finished with me yet) because after receiving the chair and working with getting it right today we still had to get some more adjustments made. Thank you all for staying with us through the long finishing process

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Encouragement

Let us encourage one another Hebrews 10:24. On Saturday morning we have men’s prayer meeting and I find having someone else to go with means I am encouraged to go myself so Lee and I go every Saturday together. I am sure we encourage one another. Another encouragement for me is when people read my blog. It is exciting to read interactions with the blog or to meet people who tell me they read the blog regularly. Please pray that all would go well on our trip to Vancouver going down Monday and returning on Wednesday.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Community

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. Margaret MEAD
Mat 18:20 For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them." JESUS
Earlier this week I visited my doctor where the first quote was on the wall of the examination room. Last night I attended a meeting of the Kelly Creek Community School where there was a visible demonstration of the first quote as people rallied around to keep the community aspect of the school alive. The second quote came to mind as I thought of all the things people had done to help me get back into the house. Let’s together pray for the success of the school this year.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Travel

A week tomorrow I will be heading back to Vancouver. I am looking forward to getting my own personal wheelchair. I will be meeting with my OT from GF Strong to get the seating right. I am anticipating having my chair set up for me. I am fortunate to have one of my caregivers going with me to Vancouver. This will make things easier for both me and Laverne. I am also going to the Rehab Equipment Expo to see what kind of things there might be to help me. Please pray Col 3:2 “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth” for me so I won’t get too taken up with things on the earth.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Open House 2010

We wanted to let people see how we were faring in our new situation so on Saturday we had an open house. We were happy to see so many friends turn up and share a beautiful sunny day with us. We are blessed with so many good friends. For those who couldn’t make it be sure and drop in on us when you are in PR. My prayer for you is Eph 3:14-16 For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being,

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

The minister's cat was sick

The minister’s cat has been sick for a few days but we now don’t have to go in to the hospital twice a day so I have time to write the blog. Friday is our 33rd anniversary so we are going to be celebrating all day! Saturday is our open house (where we hope to see all of you) and time for more celebration. If you can’t make it Saturday we would love to see you at some other time. Call ahead as I might be out gallivanting. Please pray as I am still battling an infection now using oral antibiotics. I don’t want to have to go back to the hospital.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Infection, again

Today John woke up not feeling well and said he wanted to go to Emergency. When his blood work was done they realized he had an infection so he was started on antibiotics. The good news is that he does not need to stay in the hospital. To say the least I was very relieved that we could bring him home. Please pray for John because the blood work also showed his hemoglobin has dropped and we need to figure out why this is happening

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Chance Encounter

Over the past couple of days I have continually run into people that I knew before my accident, some who knew of my injury and others did not. Today we went to Wal-Mart and I met someone from the university and someone I had worked with in AWANA. The previous night was the Blackberry Festival Street Party. We kept meeting people we knew all up and down the street. We were mutually encouraging one another. It was exciting to meet people and hear they are still praying for us and they were pleased to see me out and about around PR. Give thanks with us for all the chance encounters we have had. We look forward to having more chance encounter in the following days.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Looking back after a year

Today is the one year anniversary of the accident that changed my life-at least the physical part of my life. As Laverne put it, we would not have chosen this path but it has been good to know that the Lord is walking with us through it and I have made considerable advances since the accident. It has also been a month and a half since I got home from ECU and I have not had to go back except for visits since my discharge. In the words of I John 3:2 “what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is.” Please join us in thanksgiving for this first year and pray we will continue a joyful walk in this our second year. PS don’t forget our open house Aug 28 1-4pm

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Party Time!!

We are so thankful for each one of you, your prayers, help and encouragements in so many ways. We would like to celebrate your accomplishments in getting us here. We have a newly refurbished residence and would like you to see all the improvements that have been made. We would like to meet those who have helped with the renos and those who have shared with us on the blog. In light of this circle August 28th (Saturday). We want to see as many of you as can drop in between 1-4pm at 2782 Wilcox Road.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Day by Day

Today was another day of walking with My Good Shepherd. Last night I was really encouraged to be out sharing time with the two music teams of our church. We were at a BBQ at the Vandeverts. The good was good and the company was the same. Today as I was sitting in my living room talking with my caregiver, Loretta she suddenly said I hear a lawnmower. Our friend Dietmar was coming down the road and he proceded to cut the lawn, Laverne's hair and my hair. This afternoon we went into town missing most of the road work and then came back home. Through it all I was reminded of the song Day by day and with each passing moment, strength I find to meet my trials here. Trusting in my Saviour's wise bestowment I've no cause for worry or for fear. Now I am ready to tuck in for another night. God bless you all. Continue to pray for my improving health and patience for Laverne

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Hello I’m back!

Over the past week I have spent quite a lot of the time in bed. I don’t feel bad but I don’t have much energy. I really wanted to write this blog today because Sunday and Monday were special days. Sunday our guest speaker challenged us on to think correctly about heaven and Don Edmonds had the song “I can only imagine” which kind of reveals how little we understand what the Bible has to say about heaven,. Of course it doesn’t help that much of our understanding comes from the book of Revelation because Revelation is full of symbolism which leaves it open to interpretation. All I know is every time we spend time in our Bible study on this we find it hard to read a consensus. This bring me around to our Monday Bible Study which was on Jesus’ suffering and how we are called to follow in his steps 1Peter 2:21. This was encouraging as it means I may not be out of God’s will if I suffer. In fact Philippians 1:29 says For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake. Pray that my energy will increase

Friday, August 6, 2010

I have so much to do today that I stayed in bed.

I know it seems like an oxymoron. However today I wanted to work on my computer and it's easier to do that from bed. I still find it difficult to do good Google search and also handle and organize my e-mail. I have another program called Darcy which uses Morse code to let me type. But here I am tonight making some progress in using Dragon naturally speaking. Please pray for all of us 2782 Wilcox. Not only is it still hot, but we actually have smoke in the air from the interior. Pray too for Loretta's four-year-old as he has pneumonia.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Busy, Busy, Busy

Things getting very busy around here. On Saturday the piano was moved from old house to the barn and the dishwasher and sink were installed.
The first two lines I wrote myself, I haven’t had enough time to practice and it took a long time so Laverne is writing the rest. I know we have missed a few days and now that things are happening more frequently I think I will be writing a blog less often. Please pray with us that I will get a handle on using the computer so I can communicate more regularly. I find it difficult even to organize my email. Also I need your prayers because I have a small skin infection and it is giving me a lot more spasms.

Saturday, July 31, 2010

More Independence

With my sister and her family here, as well as my brother for a couple of days it has been a busy week for us. John has been taking part in all the activities. He has been driving himself around the yard more. Friday was a busy day and I needed to go shopping. He was able to drive himself around the store while I pushed a cart. It was a big thing for me to let him do that and of course he did just fine. Please pray I will not squelch John's independence.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

A place for everything and everything in its place

Today Eleanor and Geoff and kids went over to Hardy Island leaving us relatively peaceful for a time. My brother-in-law Stephen came today with the cabinet doors and tomorrow we are getting the countertop for the kitchen. Once the countertop is in we can mount the sink and put in the dishwasher. The will make our kitchen pretty much complete. Ecc 3:1 For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: Pray that we will be busy about the right things.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Stardate 26/07/2010

This morning I am reminded of Star Trek. Sitting in my wheelchair, reminds me of Capt. Kirk sitting in his command chair. He does little himself but commands the other crew to get things done. Eleanor and Geoff are here and this morning, while Geoff busied himself working on the boat Eleanor took the pruners and trimmed back the fir trees that blocked the view from the driveway and also those that shaded the patio. As I on the patio: Eleanor asked me about everything she wanted to cut.
It seems to me that I am in a similar position towards God. I have a useful tool, the Bible, with which I can do what the father wants me to do. But unless I consult my heavenly father in prayer I will either do the wrong thing, or feel that it all depends on me. Pray that I will depend on God for direction.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Thanks for being encouragers

Today was such an eventful day that I am composing this blog with Laverne's help at 10:00 at night. We attended church this morning and the message was very appropriate as it was about maintaining our faith in the storms of life. Mike reminded us that when the disciples faced a very real storm on the Sea of Galilee Jesus was with them asleep on a pillow in the bottom of the boat. After church we came home and awaited the arrival of Laverne's sister Eleanor and her husband Geoff. They arrived along with Laverne's parents from town and we had bbqed salmon given to us by a friend at church. THus begins old home week as we are also expecting Laverne's brother as well as some nieces and nephews. I think of the encouragement we receive from our family - both the spiritual family at Kelly Creek and our Bible Study (not to mention all you who comment on the blog) and our natural family(my brother and family and Laverne's family). I want to thank you all for being the encouragers to us.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Praying

Rom 8:26 Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. This morning the men got together to pray. We picked up Lee so he could pray too. We spent a lot of time talking about living for Christ in our world today. It seemed like we spent about 50 minutes talking and 10 minutes praying but I saw how this verse applied to our meeting as the Spirit led our talk and gave focus to our prayers much better than using our prayer time to figure out how to pray as we should. It seemed like we were all “in one accord” as we prayed for our families and friends to shine for Christ in what we saw as a dark world. Please pray that we can live for Jesus everyday this week. As far as getting back to normal at home the last few days have been concentrated on using my voice or sip and puff to control my environment.

Friday, July 23, 2010

A blast from the past

I remember when our Prime Minister chose to use a line from the desiderata in a speech to the nation. He said today is the first day of the rest of your life - that’s how it seems around here. In my last post I spoke of all the activities going on and now yesterday and today I have been practicing with all the new devices. It truly seems like the first day of the rest of my life. It reminds me of the first verse I ever memorized Two Corinthians 5: 17. If so today is the second day, which brings me to the second day of creation. How I wish it was the seventh day. Pray with us that I will be able to master all the assistive technology.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

New Technology

Today we got the internet-hurray. No more having to go somewhere else to blog or get our email. I am so glad. Also today we had a visit from Technology for Independent Living. The technologist set up a device so John is able to turn a light off and on as well as the radio/CD player and a call bell. He is also now able to use the telephone – anyone in PR can expect a call as John practices getting good at using the phone! It takes quite a bit of practice and perseverance so he will be busy working for at least a couple of weeks if not longer. Please pray that John will have the patience to learn how to use these devices that are there to help him be independent.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Power Outage

For the past few days John has been listening to an audio book from the library. He woke up early this morning and asked me to turn on the CD player. Part way through the disc it stopped and then his ventilator started beeping and John told me the power was out. (His vent alarms when it changes from AC to DC power.) After finding out that Hydro had no idea when the power would be back on we decided to head for my parents place. By the time we had a lovely breakfast the power was back on at our place and we were ready to head home and get on with our day. We learned a few things. One was that we need to keep some water on hand. I had dumped all our water out when cleaning up our house for being with John in Vancouver. We are so thankful that the power outage was just a little blip in the day and we were well organized.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Good Works

On Sunday my friend Lee came over and washed our new van for us while on Monday another friend Tom had found a new to us stove and brought it out. Now our kitchens in both houses are fully stocked with appliances and I am getting ready to go to my second Bible Study Yeah!! Gal 6: 10 So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, Now that I am home it is exciting to see how the second part of this verse is coming to pass. As people shower me with good things I am reminded that I have always felt we need to be able to receive as to give. All that is left to do in the barn kitchen is to get the counter top installed and then install all the appliances. This looks like a busy week. Please pray that both Laverne and I will have the stamina to get everything done.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Let your little light shine

Matt 5:16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. This morning I was enjoying the sun out on the patio and thought of this verse. When you are in the sun you really do glorify God. The heat is like the light that we shine in the world, it brings good feelings to all who experience it. Today is an exciting day, we took delivery of our appliances and a friend in town called to say he had located a stove for us. This was an answer to a prayer we had last week. I am sitting in my in-law’s apartment looking out at Texada Island with only a few small clouds –it truly is a beautiful day.

Friday, July 16, 2010

A peaceful life in the country

Today we had our first home visit from the community physio. He was impressed with the way our house is set up and assured us we are doing the right things. He also commented on how peaceful it is at our home for which we are truly thankful. We went into town today and once again I was full of thankfulness for the van which makes getting in and out very easy so we made 3-4 stops before coming home. One remaining concern is my low blood pressure – it is a little disconcerting for others when I gap out as my blood pressure drops. Please pray that my blood pressure will be well controlled.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Crazy Carpet

Today,we got some carpet tiles to put in the back bedroom in the barn.We tried to match it up but no matter how hard we tried they did not match up.This reminding me of the church.We humans would like everyone to be the same only God can handle the differences between people.God wants us to see united but not uniform where as we are more concerned on uniformity not unity.Eph 4:3-6 eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit--just as you were calledto the one hope that belongs to your call-- one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.
Pray for the unity of the church in our world today.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

The Word

Pro 7:1-3 My son, keep my words and treasure up my commandments with you; keep my commandments and live; keep my teaching as the apple of your eye; bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart. Our daily Bible reading contained these verses yesterday which encourage us to keep God’s Word close to us and challenges us to follow him. He is calling us to be his disciples. The regular reading of his Word brings us face to face with how we can carry that out. Please pray that we will be open to hearing and obeying his Word. The combination of daily reading and writing the blog is a great encouragement to conform my life to Jesus’ teaching.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Praise and Thanksgiving

Psa 37:25 I have been young, and now am old, yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken or his children begging for bread. Today was a rather quiet day and I had time to think over how fortunate I really am and this verse came to mind. I was thinking of my in-laws and the example they have been to keep on keeping on, even at their age. We also had Bible Study at our place last night and somebody?? made the comment that they were concerned about the study keeping going but we had a good turn out and everybody was encouraged. Today’s blog is one of praise and thanksgiving as I look at this verse and see it works in my life today just as it did in David’s life.

Monday, July 12, 2010

Back to Normal

2Tim 3:16 All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, After being away from Bible Study for almost a year we are preparing for having it in our new quarters tonight. The plan is for a sharing and praising time. I have really missed our study and this marks another step in getting back to normal.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Living God's Way

Today being Sunday we went to church and met old friends who came to lunch afterwards. They spent the afternoon together sharing old times and memories of Kelly Creek Community Church. It reminded me of how important the apostle Paul found it to communicate with friends new and old and to encourage the church. The message today was from Ezekiel about dry bones and was very encouraging as it centred around the filling of the Holy Spirit challenging us as a church to desire God more and see him work in our personal lives. Let us pray for each other that we will have the courage to desire the filling of God’s Spirit and to share this blessing with our friends. PS the pictures are on the way.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

A picture is worth 1000 words

A couple of days ago someone requested pictures of our new home . Today we spend our time enjoying our new home and thinking of what pictures we would post on the blog. Stayed tuned as tomorrow we plan to take some pictures and post them. It has been wonderful to be back at home and to have people come to visit us. I realize that is not possible for everyone so I want to share a couple of thousand words – on second thought it would be even better to share some pictures of what a great place we have to live in. Continue to pray that I will be able to stay at home and we will have pictures posted in the next few days.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Bible Study

Deu 6:6,7 And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. Monday I am looking forward to having Bible Study at our place. I hadn’t really thought about it but I missed having a weekly input of sharing insights from the Bible with other people. When I was a child my mother was the Sunday School superintendent and would run things by me to see if they would work in Sunday School and we did a similar thing with our daughter. Please pray that I will “talk of them when I sit in my house…”

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Officially Home

Today was the day we officially cut the apron strings and phoned the hospital and told them I was not coming back. we have been praying for this for a long time and we would like to thank all of you have prayed along with us. Marie, our live-in caregiver tell us the hot weather we are having is quite common in the Philippines but I am really enjoying it and hope this will keep me healthy so I don’t have to go back to the hospital anytime some. It was great to be there and I appreciate all the work the staff did while I was waiting for the house to be ready for me. Please remember me in your prayers especially that I would stay out of the hospital for an extended stay at home. Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full. John 16:24

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Home For Good

I came home yesterday and had a great afternoon sitting under the trees with the warm temperature. Today is a continuation of yesterday. Please pray I will keep on feeling better every day so I can stay home but remember no matter what happens - we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. Rom 8:28

Monday, July 5, 2010

Excited Caregivers

Today was exciting for my caregivers. I wanted a lot of sleep and it made them excited because I was so drowsy. When I woke up I felt much better. Pray that I will get a good rest – with no excitement. Psalm 23:1-3 The Lord is my Shepherd I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside the still waters, He restores my soul.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Lots of Rest Needed

I have just come from ECU and from getting John into bed. We had a great weekend with lots happening. John was very tired tonight and could hardly wait to get to bed. Please pray John will gain strength and stamina and rest in the Lord. Tuesday is the that we are hoping he comes home for good.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Home Again

Yesterday I picked John up from ECU and we went to a percussion recital. It was a great start to our weekend at home. We are still in the organizing stage of things so getting home requires a lot of figuring. It is however getting easier. Last night was a better night for John than the last one he spent at home. He was determined to make it to men's prayer at 8am Saturday so he made it. So many firsts! Please pray that he will continue to remain healthy and will have a relaxed home visit.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

East, West - Home’s Best

We missed blogging the last two days and the reason was the caregivers were given a learning session by PROP, as well as sessions for volunteers to become familiar with helping me in an emergency. At the same time I was getting ready to spend my first overnight in my newly renovated home. Hebrews 11:8-11. All the things mentioned for Abraham and all the things we talked about happening to me went well, although not in the way we expected. The trainer’s car broke down so the teaching sessions had to be shifted but I am glad to report we now have a cohort of people ready to support me and accompany me on outings. I also spent my first night at home and my caregivers had a chance to work together at our place. My first experience overnight at home felt very good and I am looking forward to increasingly longer stays.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Changes

Today we learned again that each day we never know what it going to happen. This afternoon while we were talking with John’s case manager I had a phone call from the person who is doing the training for John’s ventilator. He was phoning from Sechelt and his car was being towed back. He was supposed to be doing the training tonight so that session will have to be moved. We are still having the sessions tomorrow so no one will be in to see John. Please pray for John as he spends tomorrow on his own.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

A Day of Prayer

Today was a day of prayer. When I woke up I just felt the warmth of God in my heart. Next when the physio therapist came to give me chest care Laverne and Maria left for church and I was thankful they were getting to go. I always like it because Laverne takes good notes and can remember what is going on in the service. When they got back I had my lunch and then the Catholic choir came. We sang mostly songs of praise and thanksgiving with a subtheme on the Trinity. While Laverne held the hymnbook for me I tried to sing but as I was very dry they got mostly squeaks from me!

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Back to ECU

Today was a better day for John. He had a restful night in ICU and when the doctor came in this morning he told John he could go back to ECU after a few tests. It turned out that he made it back by just after 3. He was happy to be back where the nurses know him and he knows the other residents as well. Please continue to pray the antibiotics will stop this infection in its tracks and we are still on track for going home.

Friday, June 25, 2010

Back in ICU

Today when I got to ECU John had a fever. The doctor did tests and in the afternoon when the results were back started him on antibiotics. Around 5pm he wouldn't respond and so they had to call the ambulance. Of course he got into the ambulance and woke up immediately, however he went to emergency and from there was transferred to ICU. Please pray these antibiotics will be effective and the he will recover quickly.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Resting at Home

We had another wonderful day. Two of John's caregivers, John and myself spent the afternoon out at the house. It was so wonderful to just be there for an afternoon. We met my brother who was over for the day and some other friends dropped around. Please pray that we will get everything done so John can start coming home for overnights next week.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Can't Keep Him In

Today was a busy day for John. He seemed to have people doing things with him the whole morning from 8am on, In spite of this he was anxious to get out and see something different in the afternoon. We went to Starbucks as he had a gift coupon and then to my parents and had a nice visit. Please continue to pray for John's chest as he is needing increased suctioning - never fun. Also pray as we think about how his discharge from ECU is going to look

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Being Comforted

Matthew 5:4 Blessed are the sad for they will be comforted. It's a strange feeling but the more I feel good and the more active I become the more I feel sad (mourn-KJV)
When I was really sick I was glad for anything I could do but now I begin to notice all the things I cannot do. The promise contained in this beatitude, that I will be comforted is a great message for me. Please pray that I will be able to find comfort from the Lord and that I will feel more than compensated for the things I have lost

Monday, June 21, 2010

Jesus wants me for a sunbeam

Today was a day full of sunshine and warmth. We went out to visit the barn and see some new materials put in. As we sat in the car and outside for the first time it was warm. It reminded me of Jesus wants me for a sunbeam. As far as I can remember it was the first song I learned at church. I always sensed the call on our lives to represent Jesus in a good light. First of all we are to represent the shining of Jesus so others can warm up to that light. Secondly we are to be lights where ever we are and what ever we do. Even as a child I understood the privilege we had that Jesus wanted us to be his sunbeams and it is a job even for children. Now that I'm grown I'm back to the same calling - to be a sunbeam and shine forth. Please pray that I'll be able to answer that call and thank the Lord that he has given me a calling from himself.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Great is God's Faithfulness

"There is no shadow of turning with Thee". I'm encouraged by the fact that even as I have so many changes, you might even call them setbacks God reassures me there is no shadow of turning with him ie He never goes back on his promises and always fulfils his Word. Today Laverne, Maria-my live-in caregiver and I went out to our house, the one we will be living in-usually known as the barn. When you open the doors (for those who knew it from before) it has been completely altered to fit my needs from the bathroom with a roll-in shower to the storage cupboards under the stairs. All is being made ready for when I return home. This is a real testimony to the faithfulness of friends and I also see it as an example of God keeping him promises.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

The goal is Home

John continues to slowly get stronger. He has been enjoying visits from different ones but his focus is on getting home - he can hardly wait. ECU is only a stepping stone. Please pray that he will have patience needed in this waiting time and that his health will continue to improve. We are blessed to have so many people who have been willing to help prepare our place so John can go home.

Friday, June 18, 2010

Sunshine

Although John wasn't up to writing the blog today when asked what it should be on he said Sunshine. He is more tired right now which I think is a side effect of one of his meds that should right itself in a day or two. We are also thankful his blood pressure is starting to come down. This afternoon we enjoyed the sunshine as we walked around outside in the garden and greenhouse at ECU. There is also sunshine at mealtime as the fellows at John's table talk and joke with one another. Please pray for a continued improvement in John's health.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Equipment pre-approval

Yesterday we received a letter that most of the funding for John's wheelchair has come through. Please pray with us as we decided what to do about those items that are not covered - some would have been nice but not necessary. We need wisdom to decide if some are really necessary. It is exciting after all this waiting to think we can finally order the wheelchair. Also continue to pray for John's health as he is not 100% yet.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Out of ICU

Today when I got back from lunch John and all his things were packed and he was ready to go back to ECU. Thank you for all your prayers. Things have not totally resolved but he is improving which is the main thing. He was very happy to get back where there is more interaction. He is also looking forward to having a pass and going to see what is happening at the barn. He can hardly wait to get home.

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

The Comfort I Need

Matt. 5:3 Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. When do we find our closest relationship to God? When we are prosperous and successful or when we are poor in spirit? For the past week I have struggled with being poor in spirit and yet I think I have been drawn closer to God than all the wooks before that. The Holy Spirit is called the Comforter in John's gospel because he reassures us of God's love when we don't feel it. Paul in Romans 8:26 explains the condition of the poor in spirit when he says we don't know what we should pray for. That's the time the Holy Spirit comes along and prays for what is best. Continue to pray for me that I will listen to the Holy Spirit and pray in God's will not in my own discouragement. As Laverne and I look to God for encouragement pray that we may see the answers to our prayers and indeed enjoy and experience the kingdom of heaven one earth. Thank you all for praying.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Trusting

Proverbs 3:5,6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;in all your ways acknowledge him,and he will make your paths straight. I lost the battle of trusting today. Things are quite difficult as I hear things and feel things not there. Just before supper we read Psalm 62 which pointed out to trust God is the safe thing to do because he has determined the outcome. This is better than trusting other things. There seems to be one roadblock after another getting home. Please pray with Laverne and I that we would trust in God and leave the getting home to God

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Still in ICU

John remains in ICU at this time. He is baffling the doctors as they know something is wrong but they cannot figure out what the problem is. At first they thought it was a bacterial infection but all the cultures and blood work show that it isn't so they think perhaps a viral infection but really are not sure. Please pray for John to improve as well as for wisdom for the doctors to know how to treat him

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Living in Unity

Psalm 133:1 How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity! This verse catches the essence of dwelling together - over the internet where we can have instantaneous conversation with other people. I know it is not as good as getting together but so often our houses have become fortresses and people are separated by soundproof walls. When we go out we go in our cars and in restaurants are isolated from others. I have found through writing the blog I have people sharing their hearts – even people I don’t know. I have people tell me it is an opportunity for them to share their thoughts and to really think about things. I know I am inspired by the responses to my blog as they expand the scope of what I said. Thank you bloggers for sharing – you never know who you are helping.

Friday, June 11, 2010

Smooth Road

It has been a joy for me to write it as I share with you the ups and downs of my recovery. Believe it or not we are closer than ever to getting into our house. I have a new driveway that reminds me of the smooth road spoken of in the Bible. I like to think of it as my straight path to recovery – Proverbs 3:5,6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. I imagine there will be a few bumps along the way but with God receiving all of our prayers the bumps will not stop the advance.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Not Much Change

John's condition has not changed much in the past day. The doctor still does not know the site of the infection. On the good side he does have a good appetite and is eating well. Please continue to pray with us. We were praying from Psalm 50:15 and call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you shall glorify me." We are looking forward to being able to gloriy him.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Slow Improvement

Today John is a bit brighter and was able to take a little bit of food. This is encouraging. In spite of this his blood work has not improved. Please pray the doctors will have wisdom in treating John. Today I was reading from Psalm 46 The Lord is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. It seems like this is a time of trouble for us and it is comforting to know there is a refuge.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Quiet day in ICU

John spent a quiet night in ICU. He will be here for awhile as he needs more care than ECU can give him right now. We both realize this is the best for John while he is not feeling well as he just needs to rest and gather up strength to get better. I was becoming anxious as this is the first time John has been very sick when we don’t have all the specialists that Vancouver has to offer. I was thinking that I didn’t know enough and didn’t know what to do when I was reminded that I didn’t need to know everything but God was in charge. He can guide and direct in ways that I can’t and that is such a relief.

Monday, June 7, 2010

Admitted to PRGH

For the past few days, although John has been up and about he has not been his usual bright self. Today whe his doctor saw him he wanted him to see the specialist and so this afternoon he wheeled over to emergency. Tonight he was admitted to ICU with what is probably an infection. The blessing is the ICU nurse on tonight was the one that took the ventilator training so I am going home to sleep. Yeah!

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Progress on the Barn

Today we had lunch after church at our house and it was good to see how things are progressing. Everything was taken out for painting and two nerw closets are built in so we now have more storage space. It was good to get out and see what is going on. Please pray for all those working at our place as the.y give of their time

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Rest Day

Today is a peaceful day of rest – finally! We had a great visit from a couple from our church but very little in the way of hospital business. The weather is nice and we went outside where we can pick up the internet and it is good to see all the comments to the blog. Pro 25:25 Like cold water to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.

Friday, June 4, 2010

Physio

I arrived home from Vancouver with a renewed sense of the value of chest physio and independent breathing trials. The first is important to clear up the secretions from my lungs and the physio here is coming in 6 days a week to do the chest physio. I have already noticed the difference in my lungs but I need also to concentrate on independent breathing. This would keep me alive if something went drastically wrong with my machine. It reminds me once again of the need for spiritual breathing mentioned in 2 Timothy 3:16 All Scripture in God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness. I need to get back to reading my Bible which I can do on my computer.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Trip to Vancouver

Today we had an eventful trip to Vancouver. Unfortunately the test for the phrenic nerve was a failure but we got to see the doctor and many of the nurses from the floor I was on. We also got some valuable help from the OT. This is the best day this week for travelling, sunny and bright. Please pray that we will handle the disappointment of the phrenic nerve test and benefit from the other consults we were able to make. A big highlight for us was seeing Katie again along with Marsha, Andy, and Melinda

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Prep Day

Today is a preparation for a trip to Vancouver tomorrow. I had my tracheotomy change a day early by a student who is working with my doctor. I also had a bath and a day of mostly resting. Tomorrow the trip to Vancouver is going to be down and back in one day. I am having some tests as well as meeting the OT and doc. Pray for safety on the trip, that we make all the ferries and energy for the big day.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Helpers

Yesterday we wrote about finding a live-in caregiver and my thoughts are mainly about getting into our house and establishing a routine of activities. I wonder about what I will be able to do and how I will fill my days. I think that my computer will allow me to study the Bible and read books as well as access the internet. It’s rather frustrating right now as I cannot access the internet from the hospital. I am very thankful for all the work that is being done at the house. I am getting a new driveway put in for the cost of the materials. There are many others that are working on renovations and painting. We are thankful to all these volunteers. Galatians 6:10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers. We have experienced this.

Monday, May 31, 2010

Caregiver

Thank you all who prayed about John’s caregivers. Today we had the one we had chosen to be a live-in caregiver come and see and participate in John’s morning routine. This worked out really well so I think we will use it with others as well. All the staff commented on how impressed they were with her and we also like her very much. Please continue to pray as we have to figure out which other people would be appropriate.

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Renovations

Today when we got to church part of the wall was stripped to the 2x4's in preparation for renovations that are taking place. Mike referred to it in his sermon today when he talked about when we need improvements made, God has to strip us down before those renovations can take place. I am thankful that God is working on all of us to make us "beautiful in his time". I just need to have the patience to let God be God and do things his way and in his time.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

Wisdom

James 1:5 But if any of you lacks wisdom, he should pray to God, who will give it to him; because God gives generously and graciously to all. We sure need wisdom around the issue of caregivers-wisdom in deciding who to engage as caregivers, and wisdom in figuring out hours and a care plan. This past week we have interviewed 4-5 so far and have a couple more to go. We have started thinking about care plans and schedules as well. We are rookies at this and need lots of wisdom.

Friday, May 28, 2010

Resuming Independent Breathing

I slept all through the night last night with no interruptions. In the morning I had range of motion, chest physio and the bike so I got lots of exercise. In the afternoon we did an interview and then had my first independent breathing trial in PR. All these went well so I decided to go for a ride and visited VIU, Powell River campus and got a big welcome from the staff. On the way back we did some window shopping and arrived back at ECU in time for supper. It was pouring rain but we survived. I am thankful for all the things I can do.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

More Happening all the Time

Thing are moving. Laverne’s brother Stephen came over to organize the volunteers who are putting our house in order so we can move in. Next week I am going back down to Vancouver for more tests for the pacer and the staff at the Evergreen ECU have been nothing short of marvelous. Thank you for all your prayers and support. Pray requests are for being accepted for the pacer and getting moved into our house. We put an ad in the paper for caregivers and have had many responses and now we are in the interviewing phase.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Multimedia Library

Today it rained but we made it out to the PR Library. I can’t easily read books anymore but the library has a good collection of books on CD, music, and multimedia DVD’s so we went and loaded up. I’ve always been a fan of libraries since I was in grade school when the library in Castlegar was a shack in the municipal parking lot. It’s almost as if they brought in multimedia so I could continue to enjoy libraries!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Caregivers

Over the last few days Laverne and I have been interviewing prospective caregivers. We put an ad in the local paper. We have had several good candidates and now we have to make decisions about who we will hire. Pray that we will have wisdom in our decision. In addition we have had visits from many friends in Powell River. We give thanks for our return.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Not a Smooth Road

Last night Jon kept the nurses hopping as he had a lot of spasms which set off the alarm on his ventilator. An increase in spasms for Jon is an indication of an infection so today he was started on an antibiotic. Please pray that this will be effective and the infection will quickly clear. Also pray for patience as he would like to do so much and there are only so many hours in the day and much of the time is taken up in giving him the care he needs.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

House of Love

Psalm 122:1 I was glad when they said to me, "let us go to the house of the Lord". This was a special Sunday for us as it was our first Sunday back in PR. The nurses at ECU made a special effort to get John up so he could make it to church. It was so good to see all the old faces at Kelly Creek and it was also so encouraging to see so many new faces as well. God has been at work here at home, just as he has been at work in our lives in Vancouver for the past few months.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Working on Dragon

I have always enjoyed computers and talking, and now I get to talk to my computer. My new program, called Dragon has attracted a lot of attention. My nurse and other staff hear me talking and come into my room to find out what is happening. It is nice to have company. Please pray I will master the Dragon Program and the way it interacts and manages my other programs. Pray that Laverne can master the Bluetooth consistently so I can use Dragon.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Reality

How can you tell life is back to normal? Today John saw the dentist for his check-up and cleaning. They moved the dental chair out of the way and he stayed in his chair and tilted it way back so they could work on his teeth. I hovered around until he told me to go and sit in the waiting room. After we did some running around to WalMart and of course the bookstore as well as picking up root beer at A & W. If that wasn't enough for one day before he went out he had visits from some special people. It is so nice for us to see folks we haven't seen for ages and you can just pop in for a few minutes. It doesn't have to be long but it means a lot.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

I thought I was retired!

Today was inservice at Evergreen ECU! In the afternoon my family doctor changed my tracheostomy before a crowd of interested nurses and the rest of the day I provided instruction inservice on other aspects of my care. Tonight I am quite tired while writing this blog but the high points have been the visitors I have seen. I have read their comments in the blog but it is so good to see them face to face. I feel like Paul in Romans 1:11,12 For I want very much to see you in order to share a spiritual blessing with you to make you strong. What I mean is that both you and I will be helped at the same time, you by my faith and I by yours.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

We have a Wonderful ECU in PR

It is so exciting to be back in PR. The staff at ECU have been so helpful and willing to learn all that is needed to provide care for John. It has been a great learning experience for us as well as we will need to train caregivers that we hire. Please pray for caregivers for John - ones that will care for him and ones that God sends for us to be a part of their lives. We are also enjoying the visits with friends - John especially appreciates the visits that children have made to see him. We are thankful for all the wonderful friends who have visited, phoned and prayed for us.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Happy Birthday John!

Today was also John's birthday.
You're older today than yesterday but younger than tomorrow.

Wishing you the happiest of birthdays, and blessings as you are now home in Powell River.

Reunions - Getting together again

Today was my first full day in PR. At Evergreen I met so many people I know before I went to GF Strong from friends of my daughter Katie to people I taught at PR campus of VIU. It seemed I was surrounded by people who had a connection with me and/or my family. It reminded me how important it is to be connected with people. At the same time we need to be open to new relationships in our lives. As I read the blod today I realize there were people who I have known for years and people I have connected with recently. Please pray for me as I settle into a routine at Evergreen.

Monday, May 17, 2010

HOME!!!

Today we left GF Strong just after 7am. We arrived at Evergreen ECU just before 2pm. We are so thankful for everyone who made this possible escially the staff both in PR and at GF Strong. We had no trouble at all on the way here. Needless to say John is pretty tired tonight but happy to be in PR. Tomorrow is his birthday so we plan on going out to the house in the afternoon (he will be tied up with staff all morning). We hope to catch up with everyone. Thank you for all your prayers and kindnesses.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

To Leave is to die a little

I learned this adage from my high school French teacher who came from Haiti. In French it is "partir est mourir un peu". I often think of it when I leave people I may not see again like fellow clients of GF Strong who I will remember forever but I may not see again, not to mention and nurses and other staff. To compensate for losing them I will be renewing friendships as I return to PR. Thank you for helping me retain friendships as you share this blog with me. The new van is very comfortable and I look forward to the trip tomorrow. Pray for a safe journey tomorrow.

Blake's Jerusalem

Yesterday we went to a sing-a-long concert. One of the pieces was William Blake’s Jerusalem and it has occupied my thoughts today as I there are no doctors around and no appointments. The first verse is controversial as people interpret it that Jesus visited England but it brought to my mind the verse whoever welcomes a child in my name welcomes me. Blake doesn’t leave us with ancient history and so the second verse is his personal relationship with God. “Bring me my bow of burning gold: Bring me my arrows of desire: Bring me my spear: O clouds, unfold! Bring me my chariot of fire! I will not cease from mental fight, Nor shall my sword sleep in my hand Till we have built Jerusalem In England's green and pleasant land. What interested me was to look at the lines and apply each one to my life. My favourite line is Bring me my arrows of desire. I’ve just started on Blake’s poem so you’ll get more at another time.

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Gallivanting

Today was a busy day as all the medical people were tying up loose ends and saying good-bye as most of them will not be there Monday morning when we leave – hopefully around 7am. In the evening we went to the Orpheum for the Bach Choir’s Last Night at the Proms. It was a fun concert with balloons bouncing and a teddy bear contest. One of the songs the two soloists sang was the song John sang to me when he first told me he loved me so it was special. It was made a little more memorable as the baritone soloist proposed to the soprano at the end of the concert! We took the HandyDart there and back and by the time they picked up us and a couple of others and dropped them off and then us it was almost midnight by the time we got back to GF Strong but it was a good day.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Loose Ends

Today was another busy day and I have just left John in the capable hands of the massage therapy student while I write the blog. Today we nailed down the fact that we will leave early Monday morning to catch the 9:30 ferry out of Horseshoe Bay. Believe it or not they will bring a day nurse in an hour early so John will be ready to leave at 7 so we can make it through rush hour to get to the ferry in time. They also demonstrated how to do an emergency lift from his chair and how to go up and down stairs in his manual chair. We also received his chair ventilator that he will be taking with him. That was just a few of the things that happened today. Please pray that we will remain calm and able to do the many things needed in the next few days.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Pot Pourri

Pot Pourri
Today I started by going to UBC to get a chest x-ray. I left at 10 o'clock and got back at 1:30. When I arrived back at G. F. Strong Laverne was there and she was interviewing a caregiver. As a consequence lunch was at 3 PM then we went to see occupational therapist. I needed to get my chair adjusted. When we left the occupational therapist we ran into Laura the chaplain. She was excited about sharing the pastors conference she went to let Regent College. We also received a message from Powell River that they would like us to go to the hospital on Tuesday not Monday. This is yet to be sorted out more about it later. After supper I got set up on the Dragon software and I am now using it to dictate this blog. Pray for the many meetings we've been having and will be having in the next few days.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Another Chair

Today John was fitted for the wheelchair with which he will go home – not the chair he is buying but a loaner chair until he gets his.  He is happier to be in this chair as it is much smaller and once he gets used to it again much easier to drive.  Right now he has to adjust as he hasn’t driven this type of chair for over a month.  It is nice because his legs now fit under the dining room table again and I can sit at the same table as he is at and he doesn’t tower over me.  Please pray that it will be an easy adjustment to this chair and also that we would be aware of any adjustments to the chair that need to be made before we go home.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Focus on home

This week is for getting ready to get home.  I still have issues with my blood pressure and chest secretions.  Please pray these won't interfere with coming home.  Exciting news is it looks like we will get the wheelchair van I tried out Saturday.  I've really got to know the staff here at GF Strong and much and all as I want to get home I am going to miss them.  I give thanks for all the care I've had at both GF Strong and VGH and the great cooperation for going home from Evergreen ECU.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

My Room Becomes the Dragon's Den

Yesterday Laverne told you about the wheelchair van we tried out.  The exciting thing that happened yesterday was a trainer came with new software so that my computer can understand my voice.  This Dragon software was supplied by the PR campus of VIU where I worked before I retired.  It not only takes dictation so I can make notes and sent letters but also runs my programs and sends the mouse scurrying around the desktop.  VIU also provided funds for a training session so I am getting a good start.  The biggest challenge is my voice.  Pray that my voice will get stronger and more reliable.  We also went to church on the city bus but I'll write about that another time.

Saturday, May 8, 2010

Trying out a van

Today was another day of preparation.  In the evening we test drove a wheelchair van.  The really good part of it was our nephew Andrew had a softball tournament close by so we got John into the van and went over and watched the game.  It was a tight fit getting him into the van because right now he is in the GF Strong chair which is considerably higher than the chair he is planning on getting.  It was great being able to just load him into the van and go where ever we wanted to go.  Please pray that we will make the right decision about a van.

Friday, May 7, 2010

Making Haste Slowly

Today I had sessions both physio and occupational therapy.  They are working together to provide a care book for my caregivers back home.  This is causing me to realize the time to go home is rapidly approaching. It is also important to realize I need to approach it deliberately and not to succumb to a state of hurry so some of the essentials get left out.  At times like this I like to recall the song "There is a time" which is based on Ecclesiastes 3.  Also I remember the tremendous amount that the Lord Jesus accomplished in 3 years of ministry and ye he never seemed to me in a hurry. 

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Intermittant Breathing Trial

Yesterday I took my first breathing trial where I didn't use oxygen but room air.  I started off with oxygen and then did 4 minutes on room air for a total of 6 1/2 minutes.  It seems strange to be so excited about 6 1/2 minutes of breathing without assistance when for 60 odd years I didn't think much at all about breathing.  That said I am very pleased that I can keep going with the help of a mechanical breather.  I was exhausted by the time the trial was over but half an hour later I was convinced I could have gone another 6 minutes.  It reminds me that the Bible tell us to consider our breathing and realize every breathe we take is a gift from God - Isaiah 42:5

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Low Batteries

This morning Laverne took out her cell phone to make a call only to find out she had forgotten to charge her phone and it wasn't working.  I wanted to check my oxygen level on the portable monitor only to find that the batteries needed changing.  This reminds me that our power comes from God through our Saviour Jesus Christ and I think of the Andre Crouch song "The Blood Will Never Lose Its Power".  This is just another reason to praise God.  Today for the first time in a week my blood pressure stayed normal all through supper. Yeah!

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Preparing to Go Home

This morning I worked with the physio and occupational therapists to film videos on my morning chest care so the people in PR will be able to see how the care is provided so they can do it in PR.  This afternoon I worked with them and the vendor of my equipment to get the specifications for equipment I need.  However this equipment will not be forthcoming until my extended health provider approves the purchase.  Please pray that we will get the approval of equipment purchase so it will be ready when I go home to PR.  Finally we visited the bank close to GF Strong to set up an account to pay my caregivers in PR.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Low blood pressure again

For the past few days John has again been struggling with low blood pressure.  This has not been a problem for him in months but it is now.  Please pray for him as he is very fatigued when this happens.  He also feels discouraged as he is concerned he will have to stay here longer. We appreciate all your prayers and comments that you make

Sunday, May 2, 2010

A Trip of a different sort

I think I mentioned before the Cascades Gospel Chapel has undertaken a huge challenge as a church this year.  They are reading through the Bible in a year together and the messages each Sunday relate to that weeks readings.  Today's message was on confession and used Psalms 51 & 32 which are King David's confession.  I like the verse Ron Edgecombe the speaker shared -it was I John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness (he being God).  It was a challenge for everyone especially me.  Afterwards we all ate together with a beginning of the month luncheon.  Please pray I will keep my channel clear with God through confession.

Saturday, May 1, 2010

Outing to Steveston

Today John and I along with some others from GF Strong went out to Steveston. The morning had started off very cloudy but by the time we went the sun started to shine. We enjoyed a scenic ride by farms and out to the water. As usual by the water it was very windy but the bonus was there were lots of kites flying. There were fellows on go-carts flying kites, some on inline skates, there was even one just sitting in his chair. We truly live in a beautiful province. We are blessed.

Friday, April 30, 2010

Hollywood North - Alive and Well

This morning I began my career as a movie star.  They shot photographs of my chest care and getting transferred into the wheelchair.  These still pictures, along with an appropriate description of what is happening will be put together for a manual for my caregivers and the staff at ECU,  Next week they are bringing a video camera to record the events happening here at GF Strong.  I am relieved because along  with training caregivers it will be a reminder to me of what I need to direct my care.  In the afternoon Laverne and I took time out to look at the gardens and yards close to GF Strong.  Please pray that the video and handbook will be ready to take to Powell River when I leave.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

BBQ Supper

At GF Strong today was sunny but windy.  A bbq supper had been planned for tonight so John and I went.  It was a great time although too windy to eat outside.  Instead we sat in the staff cafeteria out of the wind.  We met some people we hadn't met before and that was fun.  We usually meet people while having our meals but some of them eat in the downstairs cafeteria so we don't see those people as much.  One of the most important parts of GF Strong is the sharing and learning that goes on between patients.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Directing care

Last night John did not sleep that well. As a consequence when I came in this morning he was sound asleep and the nurse said he had asked to get up at 11. I spent the morning chatting with some of the other patients. John got up for lunch and then went back to bed as the physio therapist wanted to help John teach the nurses how to do his chest care. A few more sessions of that and he will be ready to go home and teach the nurses in Evergreen. He is really getting better all the time at directing his care. I think the extra two weeks we have down here are going to make a big difference for John’s confidence in being able tell others how to take care of him. Please pray that John’s nights don’t get interrupted so that he can get the rest he needs at night.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Team Meeting and looking forward

Today was John’s team meeting. At this meeting including various care team members from GF Strong and the Powell River members by phone it was established that John’s discharge date will be May 17th. This seems to work for everyone. Those here at GF Strong feel that he will be ready to go and in PR they are confident all will be ready to receive him. We are looking forward to seeing all our PR friends again. One big hurdle for us is extended health funding approval needs to be had for all John’s equipment. Would you pray with us that approval will come in quickly so things can be ordered? In the next few weeks John needs to hire caregivers and this is a big job. Please pray that he will have wisdom in the ones he chooses.

Monday, April 26, 2010

A New Creation II Cor. 5:17

GF Strong is a facility where many people are finding a new way to live with the help of many different therapists.  It reminds me of the new life that God brings about when a person no longer lives for themselves but for Jesus Christ who died for them.  As in my case at GF Strong there are many difficulties along the way.  One of the hardest things to sort out is what I can do something about and what I can do nothing about.  Working with the therapists I can develop new skills to breathe and move and communicate etc. but when I get an infection I have to rely on the "experts".  In the same way in my Christian life Iearn new ways to breathe and move and communicate through the Bible, pray and fellowship of other Christians.  Along the way I have to realize for the infection of sin I canreally only rely on my Saviour.  The amazing thing is that is what he wants and while I try to deal with it on my own I just get `sicker`.  Please pray I will make use of Jesus to deal with sin and continue to grow stron both at GF Strong and in my Christian life.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Spring has sprung

Today Laverne and I took the HandyDart to church.  Both coming and going the drivers took different streets than we are used to and we were both struck by the blossoms of east Vancouver. They had dropped from the trees and lay on the ground like pink confetti from a hundred weddings.  At church it was neat to see the little kids full of energy running up the aisle.  One little guy as he came running up slowed to a stop and his eyes got very big and he slowly looked all around me.  Then today's message was how God takes care of me in any  situation so today is a day of praise and thanksgiving for our God is a great God!  Psalm 57 is my meditation for today.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

So much to do, so little time

This morning I was thinking of all we have to get done in order to go home to PR.  This was sparked by a visit from Sharon Wright from PR as she said it would be exciting for everyone when I got home.  I started thinking about all the necessary things to do before MaY 17th, my date for going to PR.  I am no longer a callow youth and the prospect of moving out of GF Strong seems daunting at best.  Please pray that I will have strength (and organization) to get all that is required done to get back to PR.  Also pray my health will be good as we approach leaving.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Sharing

Today I was thinking about the importance of sharing especially how PR Health and GF Strong can share so when I go home the cargivers will have the best information to look after me.   Next Friday I am looking forward to a photo shoot!  It will be used to make a care book for PR>  This will help ensure that everyone is on the same page and it reassures me.  Please pray I will be able to direct my care when I get home - this is not as easy as it sounds.  Thanks again for your encouraging comments on the blog.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Trip to the Basement

Today when I got to GF Strong John had just got back from the basement where they had done some nerve testing on his hand to see if he has carpel tunnel syndrome from his many years of using the computer.  This came up quite quickly so they didn't even have time to put him in his chair, instead he went downstairs in his bed.  Each day it seems as if there is something new or unexpected happening.  New things and different people make life interesting here.  Please pray we will continue to be encouragers.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Expo

Today I went out in the GF Strong van to teh Abilities Expo at which many groups displayed how things could be adapted so people with disabilities can do more activities.  I had already been exposed as at GF Stron a speaker had told how he went on the Westcoast Trail.  Many of the poeple are volunteers and their aim is to enable people who are wheelchair bound to do more.  Please pray that I will not be too proud to accept the aid offered by these groups.  I saw a specially adapted poncho that covers the wheelchair as well as the person and has a removeable fleece lining.  That was just one of many things that caught my attention!

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Being like David, not Saul

Yesterday Laverne wrote that May 3 was the date for moving back to PR.  Now, in order to get everything accomplished the date has been changed to May 17.  In a way it is discouraging but in providing a later date
the GF Strong team will be sure everything is in order.  Earlier in the week Pastor Ian shared the Sunday message which was about Saul and his kingship.  He explained how Saul was always in a rush and gave in to outside pressure to do things in a hurry.  The result was a disaster every time.  I don't want to be like Saul, I want to be like David.  He waited for years after Samuel had told him he would be king.  Please pray that I will have patience to wait to go to PR for when all things are ready.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Looking to going home

Today John tackled the difficult question with the doctor about if his hospital stay would delay his discharge date.  Imagine our relief to hear that really the only thing that would keep him from missing that date would be not having all his equipment lined up.  We are sure going to work hard on making sure all those little details are taken care of so we can make the all important move back to PR. 

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Psalm 121

Today I was reading Psalm 121.  The last verse-The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore-seems to me to be a promise that John and I have experienced especially in the last little while.  It is wonderful that we don't have to worry about coming and going (like to the hospital) but know that God is watching over us. Please pray that we will all experience that peace that goes with knowing the Lord is watching over.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Power of Stories

This morning Laverne couldn't come until the afternoon so I lay in bed listening to the radio.  CBC had a program that talked about the power we had in the stories of the difficult times.  When we are brave enough to share the difficult/embarrassing stories of our lives it tends to draw people together and give them the freedom to share difficulties they have had.  I was thinking that htis might be why Jesus spoke in parables.  What do you think?  Please pray that I can share my story so others can share theirs.

Friday, April 16, 2010

More tests

Today was a busy day for John.  First thing this morning he visited with his brother and niece.  Right afterwards he was out to UBC for some tests they had scheduled a couple of months ago.  Since he went out there by stretcher he decided it was a day to catch up on rest and when he got back from UBC he stayed in bed.  His brother and niece visited again and then after supper I went in with Robin to see John.  Please pray that John does get the rest he needs and also is able to do the activities that he wants to do as well.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Special visitors

John's brother, Robin and our niece Sarah have come for a quick visit.  This is really great as I have had a sore throat for the past  couple of days and so have just paid quick little visits to see John.  Please pray that John will be encouraged and be an encourager and that I would quickly get over whatever it is that I have!

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Looking forward

We are really looking forward to coming home next month and are busy getting many things ready.  Yesterday we purchased a second hand manual chair for John as a back up (and lighter) chair.  Please pray for John as he continues to learn how to direct his care and also that we would remember all the things we need to arrange before going home.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Encouraging words

Today I went to Bible study.  We were looking at John 15 -  the gardening chapter.  The point is to bear fruit and I was thinking about pollenization.  It seems to me that each of you with your encouraging comments have been like bees spreading around the pollen so that we could bear good fruit here in Vancouver.  Please pray that John and I wil be good pollenizers and encourage others as well.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Back at GF Strong

Happily today John was discharged from VGH.  The doctor seeing him there today is the one that heads up the diaphram pacing so we were able to ask a few questions.  They are still waiting for someone else so the two surgeries could be done the same day.  He said this would not happen before John goes to Powell River given that he is going in May.  At least we now know what not to expect!  They prefer to do the surgery when his care team is assembled so everyone can be taught together how to use the pacer.  I think this past weekend was possbly the longest one.  John is looking forward to getting to work tomorrow.  By the time he got back today there was only time to touch base with his therapists and let them know he is back

Sunday, April 11, 2010

In Everything Give Thanks

This morning I awoke with a real attitude of dissatisfaction.  I had a difficult night with a lot of neck and arm spasms that kept me awake.  In the morning nothing that was done was right - at least as far as I was concerned.  Then at 2pm Laverne and Pastor Ian arrived.  Ian shared that what was wrong with our response to hard times is the inability to give thanks.  Paul wrote in I Thessalonions 5:18 give thanks in all circumstances.  Although this seems crazy it does work.  Please pray that I regain a thankful heart as so many have done so much for me and are working hard to get me home.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Patience needed

Today was a bit frustrating for John.  He really wants to be back at GF Strong where he has more access to be able to do things.  We expect that he will go back Monday - please pray that he will have the patience he needs to wait for this.  Today he was at least able to get out of his room and roam the hospital a bit.  We went and visited his roommate from GF Strong who is also in VGH right now and hoping to get back to GF Strong at the beginning of the week.  Then we went downstairs and checked his email and had a coffee-just like normal people.

Friday, April 9, 2010

Something More than Gold

This weekend I wil be staying at VGH because they don't like to transfer on the weekend.  Monday I will be back at GF Strong.  Laverne and I have been reading Psalm 119and today a verse stood out for me.  The title is from an old children's song.  In the song it says to know sins forgiven is something more than gold.  Here in Psalm 119:72  The law from your mouth is more precious to me than thousands of pieces of silver and gold,  I'm not sure but I seem to remember learning in Bible study in ancient days a thousand was used when something was uncountable.  Once again I realize how fortunate I am to be able to take in God's Word.  Pray we will all enjoy something more than gold.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Old Friends

VGH may not be the place I'd choose to be right now but if I have to be here then JP12 is the place to be.  It was great knowing the staff when I came back.  One thing that impressed me was they were all happy to see me but said they would rather the circumstances were different.  Many different caregivers popped in to see me -it is nice to be wanted.  Today I am going for a CT scan to see if there is a reason for these recurring infections.  Hopefully I will be back to GF Strong by the beginning of the week.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

New Wheels on the block

Even though I'm in VGH when I'd rather not be the Lord has arranged for interesting and useful things to happen.  My motorized wheelchair is at GF Strong and because I am not going to be in that long I have a manual chair like an ordinary one except it tilts back.  The chair they found is a bit too narrow for my athletic buildbut it will give us a sense of what a manual chair is like. All these wheels remind me of Jehu "he drives furiously". 2 Kings 9:20.  I had better not do that as the walls come up to meet me too fast!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Condition improving slowly

The past two days have been very tiring but I left John ensconced in JP 12th floor in his usual room.  He made it there at 8pm.  His condition has improved but he is certainly not out of the woods.  They are not sure what the problem is but since with antibiotics his situation has improved they are assuming it is an infection but from where they are not sure. Please pray that the doctors will have wisdom and that John will improve and be able to get back to GF Strong quickly.

Monday, April 5, 2010

VGH

Today John was not any better and is quite drowsy.  The doctors at GF Strong decided John needed to go and have more tests done.  As a consequence about 2pm we arrived at VGH Emergency.  The emerg doc and internist have seen him so far but aren't really sure what is going on.  Please pray they will have the wisdom and insight they need to accurately diagnose and treat John

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Easter Sunday

Today we had the privilege of attending church again.  This time because it was the first Sunday of the month it included a bang up lunch.  Laverne's parents wer there so it also made it a family gathering.  As well infact, everyone at the table were people we know.  Christ is risen! He is risen in deed!  (Note from Laverne - please pray for John as he is not feeling great and we -including the doctor- are not sure why)

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Rest is the key

Today was quiet at GF Strong.  Many of the patients have a weekend pass for the holiday so there are few people around and not too many staff.  John had a slow day mostly resting after yesterday and getting ready for tomorrow.  Please pray for all those at GF Strong on this holiday weekend especially those who don't live in the lower mainland and whose families are far away

Friday, April 2, 2010

Good Friday Brunch

Today we had an outing to Laverne's sister Marsha's place where we had a Good Friday Brunch with family and friends.  They had built a ramp to go up into the house and it was clear sailing from there to the dining room.  It reminded me of how often meals were mentioned in the gospels.  The one I like the most is when Matthew gathered all his tax collector friends and they shared a meal with Jesus.  The fellowship we shared together today was special.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Out and About

Today John and I along with the recreation planner and the OT went to the bus depot.  A couple of others were supposed to go as well but ended up in the hospital instead.  At the depot they had a couple of buses set aside for us to practice getting on and off as well as manouevring into the spots for wheelchairs and seeing how the tiedowns work.  John managed to get both on and off the bus which is pretty amazing considering how tight the space is.  I also managed to get him on the bus without going over an edge.  Another important aspect was to see which of the two wheelchair spots works best for John's chair.  The Handydart works great but managing on the bus means we could do something at the last minute if we wanted.  John was pretty tired afterward.  Please pray that we will use the time we have wisely.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Good News

Yesterday afternoon the doctor met us in the hall very excited. She just had the results of John's blood tests and his hemoglobin results had increased substantially from the week before.  Also his kidney function continues to improve.  We are very thankful that John's health is stable in some areas and even improving in others. 

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Team Meeting

Proverbs 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. - Today there were 21 people for John's team meeting.  The truth of this proverb could be seen as everyone at his meeting was working on his behalf to make sure John's homegoing is a success and goes as smoothly as possible. To that end 3 nurses from PR each involved in different areas made the trip to GF Strong, as well as 3 other members of his team in PR attended the meeting by phone.  The communication between people was so helpful and as one person said after it now feels like one team, not one team in PR and another at GF Strong.  The good news is that John's date for coming home is still May 3.  Please pray that John will remain healthy and that the plans formed from this meeting will go forward.

Monday, March 29, 2010

Thank you

Proverbs 25:25  As cold water to a weary soul, So is good news from a far country.  Today I just want to thank all the people who reply to the blog.  Your comments are a great encouragement to me.  Please pray that our outings will continue to be successful.  This week we are going for brunch at Marsha's on Friday and Easter Service and lunch at Cascades Gospel Chapel on Sunday.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Tour of Downtown Vancouver

Today I went to church - the long way.  We had over an hour tour of downtown Vancouver before we headed out to the church.  We saw a community garden on Davie St.  and a group of runners coming from Stanley Park.  I really appreciate being able to get out.  Everybody welcomed me at church.  The message was God still has a purpose for your life even after you retire.  Caleb was 85 when he went to Joshua and asked to conquer and take the hill country of Hebron.  God still has something for me to do too!

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Another Outing

Today was our second time on an outing with Shannon the rec planner.  This time we went with a couple of other ladies to the Museum of Vancouver.  It is in the same building as the space centre Planetarium.  This time John felt more confident and did some of the driving as well especially outside.  We walked around the park there and over to the Maritime Museum as it was nice and sunny and not too windy. Another successful outing without John having any difficulties.  Each time we go it makes the next time easier.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Being a Teacher

John is really on a learning curve.  The physio therapist is teaching him how to figure out how his chest is doing.  He is learning how important it is to ask for help with coughing and suctioning.  He is also learning how to teach someone how to position him so the coughing will be effective.  It is very important that he learn the things he needs to know so he can teach caregivers how to look after him properly.  It is a big task but he has always loved being a teacher.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

The Living Room Successful

When I got back from PR the big news John had to tell me was that we were on for going to the Living Room Wednesday night.  I didn't mention it in the blog as the last time it never happened so I thought we could report after the fact instead.  This was the reason for no blog yesterday.  For the first time in over 7 months John and I were able to spend the night together alone. A nurse came in to help get John ready for bed, another at midnight to help turn him and in the morning we had help to get John up and dressed.  We appreciated all the help we got at this is not usual for the Living Room setting.  It made me see how necessary it is for us to have help at home to care for John as I could never do it all myself.  We are very blessed to have such help here and so many of you praying and caring for us in so many different places.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Here a little, There a little

Today I had chest physio and got a lot of clearing of my chest.  THen the RT did an independent breathing trial and I was able to go 5 minutes without the ventilator, an increase of 2 minutes over my best trial before.  These seem like small advances but they mean a lot to me.  Pray that I will continue to improve on my performance.

Monday, March 22, 2010

Pressure sore

On Saturday night as John was getting ready for bed I noticed he had a red spot on an area by his heel.  This is the same heel that earlier in the year had a blister.  Although the blister healed the new skin in never quite as good before.  We are thankful this area is not open.  Please pray with us that this pressure area would clear up.  I talked with John today and he was in good spirits and had a good sleep the previous night.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Made it to Church!

Today Laverne and I went to church together for the first time since my accident just over 7 months ago.  It reminds me of Matt 18:20 Where two or three are gathered together in my name there am I in the midst.  God was certainly in our midst.  I met many people who I don't know but have been praying four me.  What a great nblessing.  We took the Handydart which picked us up at GF Strong and dropped us up at the door of the church and then vice versa for the return trip.  It all went so smooth.  I plan on trying it again.  Please pray for me as Laverne is in PR for a couple of days.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Living in the Present

Today was one of those days when not much was happening and I tended to look back to yesterday when I went to the sledge hockey game or look forward to church tomorrow.  Really what I need to do is live in the present.  Today I did work on the computer doing my Bible reading and adding notes.  I also downloaded the book "Cost of Discipleship".  We spent time in the computer room with visitors.  That is a lot of living that I did do in the present and I am thankful for it.

Friday, March 19, 2010

Winning in Overtime

Today we made our first foray to the Paralympics and saw a sledge hockey game between the Czech Republic and Korea.  At the end of regulation time it was 1-1.  In overtime the Czech Republic scored to win the game.  The atmosphere was tense in OT because the first goal wins the game which causes me to give thanks for the Christian life since Christ has won the game before it even starts.  The freedom I have in Christ enables me to walk through any situation ie quadraplegia with confidence.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

BC Paraplegic Assn

Today we attended a teleconference put on by BCPA.  They also do rap sessions Wednesday evenings which we often attend, as well as having members show up for the education sessions at GF Strong to give the perspective of some one in the "real" world living with their disability.  Today's session went out from the boardroom at GF Strong and people tapped in from Quesnel, Prince George and Victoria.  These information sessions happen once a month on topics of interest and people can hook up through community health in their area.  We plan on doing this when we are in PR as I am sure especially when we get home we will have lots of questions to ask.  Please remember to pray for us tomorrow as we go on our first big non-medical outing.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Ups and Downs

Today has been rather difficult.  Yesterday Laverne told you we were to be spending the night together in the Living Room to see what it was like to be on our own.  When Laverne got here this morning we found out the nurses had some concerns so we are not staying in the Living Room tonight.  I have to work closely with the nurses so please pray that no bad attitudes will arise.  Moving on, today Laverne's sister Marsha got some training on the ventilator and suctioning so she can back up Laverne when I go to church this Sunday.  We have already ordered the HandyDart and I look forward to meeting with God's people and worshipping together.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Equipment

Yesterday we were given an electric bed and shower chair for John along with some other supplies.  This is such a blessing for us as not only do we have the equipment here and John can try it out while still in Vancouver and if other pieces are needed we will know now but we also don't have to make a decision about which bed or chair would be best.  That decision has already been made for us.  We have enough other things to think about anyways.  We continue to be amazed at the encouragement, prayers and interest of so many people and so many offers of help.  There will be no blog tomorrow as I will be staying with John overnight in the GF Strong "Living Room".  Pray that we will be able to cope with whatever comes up when we spend this time by ourselves.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Power in the Blood

On Friday I had a blood transfusion and even today I feel strong and energized to do more.  The transfusion has helped me regain the energy I need to keep up with the rehab I need to do before coming home.  It reminds me the blood of Jesus has given me a new life in him 2 Cor 5:17. Today I was able to stay awake the whole day and get a lot accomplished. This week we have planned an outing on Friday.  Pray the energy I feel today will carry on so I can go to see sledge hockey at UBC Friday.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Rest

Hebrews 4:9 There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God  Once again Sunday was a time of rest and sharing-sharing insights from God's word and resting in sharing communion.  Resting because it reminds us we can rest because Jesus did it all.  It was the time change for Daylight Saving Time so I lost an hour of sleep in the night but I was able to sleep in until 11!  After lunch Laverne and Pastor Ian came and we talked about the assurance of victory that we have in Jesus.  What a blessed time we had.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Every day with Jesus

There's a song I learned as a new Christian.   It goes "every day with Jesus is sweeter than the day before"-I don't remember much more than that.  Yesterday I went to VGH to get a blood transfusion and today instead of being sleepy I was alert the whole day.  In the afternoon Laverne and I went out to the little shopping mall by ourselves.  We went up and down the aisles in Safeway.  One of the patients here has a cupholder fastened to a chest belt and we looked at the different cups at Starbucks and Safeway to see if we could find a cup to go in a holder.  We decided in the end to get the cupholder first.  On the way back to GF Strong it was raining and we got a little wet but it was worth it to have our first solo trip outside.  This week we plan to atten some of the paralympics.  In the words of Tony the Tiger "I feel gr-r-reat!" Thank you for all your prayers

Friday, March 12, 2010

A Short Visit To VGH

Today I had a chat with the doctor in the morning.  She said my hemoglobulin was lower and it was time for a blood transfusion which needs to be done at VGH.  Awhile after Laverne arrived we headed off to VGH.  As usual things take longer than expected.  It was hard to find a good vein for the transfusion but eventually all went well and I made it back to GF Strong by 9 pm. As the doctor predicted I feel perkier after 2 units of blood.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Wheelchair picked (I think)

Today John's brother went back to Greenwood so we had a more normal day.  Right now my days are filled with getting paperwork done.  John on the otherhand is a bit drowsy as they upped his medication and it takes a few days to get over that.  Please pray with us that it will be effective in decreasing his spasms.  In spite of feeling tired he is doing a lot of driving on his own and it looks like the chair he is using now is the type he will get.  The driving seems to work for him and the display monitor is easy to see.  Now that he has the type of chair figured out there are a whole lot of details-you would not believe all the options.  It comes stripped down and cushion, back, arm rests just to name a few things have to be added. Please pray we will be wise in the options we choose for the chair.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

The Living Room

Today John's brother was here to visit.  John got to show him how he works his computer among many other things.  We used a floor lift today to get John from the bed to his chair.  This is in preparation for spending a night in the "living room".  It is a special room in GF Strong that is like having an overnight pass to see how we do on our own.  Normally there is no nursing care but they have made an exception for us as we will have to have help to get John out of his and and into bed and vice versa.  We hope to try this situation out next week.  There is no ceiling lift in this room so they use a floor lift and I did not want to be confronted with it for the first time when we are there.  Pray that we will use our time wisely to do the tasks that need to be done at present and not get ahead of ourselves.